Ki te kua tutaki koe i te kotiro tino rite koe, whiwhi i tona waea te tau e taea te waiho i te nui ano ala. Kia ite koe io, engari ko tenei e kore e hiahia ana ki te waiho i te uaua, ranei e te teimaha te tukanga. Ko te ara pai ki te whiwhi i te kotiro o te tau waea, ko te ki te noa te manako ia i roto i te anga whakahaere, me te ui mo tona mati tika, i te aperaa i te mau herepata ano he tinihanga i tona ranei whiwhi i to koutou hoa ki te mahi i te mahi mo koutou. Na roto i te noho marino, me te māia, ka koe pea te hanga i te ongo pai. ko te wiki rite ki te Wikipedia, e te tikanga e rave rahi o to tatou tuhinga kua oti te tuhituhi ki te ngākau tapatahi? Ki te hanga i tenei tuhinga, te iwi, etahi ingoamuna, te mahi ki te whakatika me te whakapai ake i te reira i runga i te wā. Tenei tuhinga kua hoki kua tirohia e, te wa. Ki te kua tutaki koe i te kotiro tino rite koe, whiwhi i tona waea te tau e taea te waiho i te nui ano ala. Kia ite koe io, engari ko tenei e kore e hiahia ana ki te waiho i te uaua, ranei e te teimaha te tukanga. Ko te ara pai ki te whiwhi i te kotiro o te tau waea, ko te ki te noa te manako ia i roto i te anga whakahaere, me te ui mo tona mati tika, i te aperaa i te mau herepata ano he tinihanga i tona ranei whiwhi i to koutou hoa ki te mahi i te mahi mo koutou. Na roto i te noho marino, me te māia, ka koe pea te hanga i te ongo pai. E hiahia ana koe ki te akaanga i te aroaro o ara koe i te huarahi o te kotiro. Ahakoa, ki te koe i te mohio e hiahia ana koe ki te tiki ia ia i te maha rite hohoro rite koe te wahi ia, e kore koe e taea ki te mahi i te reira ki te kore koe e whakamātao i roto i te tuatahi. Ka ka e taea ki te tikanga, ki te kei koe io i te maile atu, a, ki te kei koe io, ka waiho ia tailiili rawa ranei koe kia whakawehi ia atu. Ahakoa te mea noa ki te kia manavasii ki te mana’o koe te wehi ranei, te mamahu, te kotiro, kia miharo, ‘he Aha te ake, ki tenei taata.’ Ka ai te whakaaro e reira te tahi mea atu e pā ana ki a koutou ara, ki te he koe i he noa te take o te jitters. Marino koe ki raro, mā te whai whakaaro ki te worst-case scenario. Ko te kino mea e taea e tupu ko tenei: ui ki a koutou mo tona tau waea, me te ia e kore e hoatu a reira ki a koutou. Ka taea e koe te ora e. Pea. Kia kua calmed down, te reira te wā ki te haere mai ki runga ki te kakaho, me te ratchet ake i te ātahu. Meinga kanohi whakapā, ataata, me te haere ake ki a ia ki te whakaatu ki a ia te mea he nui te taata ko koe. Ki te hiahia koe ki te pupuri i tana korero, e whai koe ki te hanga i he ongo nui tuatahi rite hohoro rite taea e koe. Here te pehea, ki te mahi i te reira: Kia māia. Whakaatu tana e aroha koutou ki te hunga e koe, e koutou e hiahia ana ki te aha te mahi koe, me i aroha koutou te whakaminenga iwi hou. Ki te whakaaro ia e koe ite pai e pā ana ki te hunga e koe, ia ka ongo’i pai e pā ana ki a koutou rawa. Tūponotanga e, ka waiho ia oaoa, no te kitea e ia i roto i te e paanga koe i roto i a ia, Hoatu ki a ia i te katoa o koutou whakarongo. E kore tenei tikanga e kia koe creepily matakitaki ana ki tona kanohi. Te auraa i te reira e koe kia tahuri o koutou tinana ki a ia, te hoatu i to koutou waea atu, me te hanga ia ia te kite e mea ia ta te mea faufaa ki a koutou. Kia whiwhi koe i te taketake i roto i o te ara, rite tou ingoa, me te wahi ki a koe e i, kia tīmata koe ki te hono ki te kotiro i runga i te taumata hohonu. E kore tenei tikanga e kia koe ui ia e pā ana ki tona ora ki te kaupapa ranei e pā ana ki te whai i te wheako o tona tamarikitanga, engari e te reira te tikanga e kia neke koe i mua i te tukunga. Here te pehea, ki te mahi i te reira: te Ui ia ia te tahi mau uiraa e pā ana ki ia. Kaua e uiui ia. Noa i te ui e pā ana ki tona teina, e pā ana ki te kiriata te ia i kite i, te aha ranei whakaaro ia o tona mahi. Kia ia te kite e te tiaki koe e pā ana ki tona whakaaro. Te whakatuwhera ake. Te hanga tino e koe e rua korero e pā ana ki te taua nui. E kore koe e e hiahia ana ki te hoatu te pēhanga ki runga ki a ia mā te tono i te rota o te pātai i waho heheu mai tetahi mea e pā ana ki koe, engari e kore e poaka te whakahaere rānei.

Kia koe e hanga i te hononga pai, tīmata ki te pārekareka te hanga fun o ia i te iti moka. Ki te mea ko ia mau i te mārama whakapaipai whakairohia te koura, tahei te tarapouahi o, te pupuri i te reira me te mea, Ko te e tūturu te koura.’ Haapoupou ia. Kaua e korero ki a ia te ia o te wahine tino ataahua kua kite ake koe. Korero ki noa ia ia he mīharo kata, ranei e ona kanohi kei te patu. Kaua e haere ki te wai. Kia tino ki te noho i te raumati. Kia kua oho i mua i te tukunga, me te whai i charmed ia i te tīmatanga, te reira te wā ki te tiki i a ia ki te rite koe te nui ki te e hiahia ana ki te noho wā ki a ia ano. E kore ia e whai ki te whakaaro e koe ko te tangata ia kua ki te tatari mo te katoa i tona ora katoa i a ia ki te whakaaro i te mea, ‘Hey, tenei taata matao. E hiahia ana ahau atu o tenei.’ Here te pehea, ki te tiki i a ia ki te hiahia ki te kite i a koe ano: Hanga atamai banter. Whakaatu tana e rite koe ki te awhiawhi i a ia, i a ia e raweke koe, me te pupuri i runga i tō mutunga o te koi aparauraa. Ki te mea ia te tahi mea rerekē, te whakautu hoki ki te rorirori quip hei utu mo o te tika ki kata, a ka mea, ‘E te rorirori.’ Tenei ka whakaatu ki a ia, e taea e koe te pupuri ake ki a ia ki te whakairi i roto i ano. Whakakitea te tahi mea, he iti ake whaiaro. Kaua e tiki na whaiaro e koe te hanga ia fiemālie, engari korero ki a ia te tahi mea e hanga ana i tona ngakau, ngohe noa iho te tika i te iti moka, me te kite e kore koe e tika katoa e pā ana ki te ngahau, engari e koe ki te tino mahi i te he ngawari taha. Kua ia whakatuwhera ake ki a koutou. Kikokore i roto i te iti ofi, me te akiaki ia ki te korero ki a koutou te tahi mea e pā ana ki a ia e kore e ia e korero ki noa tetahi. Te tīmata te hanga i te hononga kaha. tenei ki te mahi koe i te reira tika. Ki te i te tahi i te timatanga i to koutou whakahaere te haere mai ano, ka taea e koe te maongo ia e whakaatu ana e koe te mahara i nga mea katoa, e ai ta ia. Kaua e tatari hoki nga mea ki te takamuri, ranei ka ngaro koe. Te tika, no te e he koe i te tino ngahau korero ki te kotiro, ranei, no te e koe te kata te paari roa’e, ko te rite ina koe kia ui. A, no te tae koe i te wāhi i reira te whakaaro koe, te ‘au he e ahau i taua i te he wa nui te korero ki tenei kotiro, e kore ahau e kore e ara e hiahia ana koe ki te aruaru i te reira na roto i te aniraa mo tona tau waea,’ e ui koe tonu. Tenei ko te rua ara pai ki te mahi i tenei: ki te Ui ki a ia i roto i. Hei utu o te tono mō ia ia tau waea, ui ki a ia i roto i runga i te rā. I roto i te waenganui o te whakahaere nui, noa te mea, ‘e ahau ki te haere, engari e ahau tino hiahia ki te pupuri i runga i tenei kōrero i runga i te tina inu ranei i te wiki i muri mai. Aue, e koe rite ki taua.’ Ki te mea ia ia e rite i te reira, me te ki tenei wāhi, kia ia e ka e ui koe mo ia tau ki te taunga. Ui mo ia tau tika. Just a, no te te kōrero kei te haere rite ki te pai rite taea e te reira, mea atu, ‘Hey, tino rite ahau ki te korero ki a koe. Ka taea e ahau te tiki i to koutou tau, kia taea e matou te pupuri i te korero.’? Te hanga i te reira mārama e koe te tono mo ia tau no te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te whakairi i roto i ki ano, e kore e no te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te tono atu ia ia creepy tuhinga ranei koe, no te mea te tiki i te wiwi i te pae girls’ tau waea.

Te huru tika

Kaua te ngakau, me te papu i to koutou ringa i roto i te rangi, ka mea, ‘Ae.’ a, no te homai e ia koe i ia tau. Tika mea, ‘awesome, whakawhetai,’ me korero ki a ia ka karanga ia hohoro. Na ka mea atu poroporoaki, ka haere atu ki a koutou matenga tū tiketike. A ki te mea ia, kahore, e ueue i te reira atu me te mea e kore e te reira i te raruraru i te ko reira nui ki te whakatau i a ia tonu. Ki te kite ia koe i te tino whakapaipai kotiro, ranei noa, he kotiro nei titiro pera orotika ranei ahakoa e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio ki tana e pai, na te reira e kore e taea e te kino ia ki te hohoro te ui mo ia tau. Ki te mahi i tenei i roto i te rua meneti, whai koe ki te hanga i te rua o nga tatau. Tuatahi, kia mohio ia farii. I taea e ia hei tu ana i te ia, ranei ki te wahine, e kore e rave i roto i te hohonu, i whakahaere ranei rapu rite ia ki te rapu koe mo te tangata. Haere ki runga, ki te kotiro rite ki te kei i runga i te misioni. I muri i te katoa, ko koe. Tahuri ki a ia, ka korero ki a ia ki tou ingoa. Te ui ia he aha ko tona ingoa. Noa’tu eaha te ingoa, te korero ki a ia te mea he ataahua te ingoa. Korero ki a ia i te koe te tino whai ki te tiki i te haere ko koe e mohio ki a koutou hiahia ki te tatarahapa i te reira i te mea kihai koe i te iti rawa tamata ki te tiki ia ia ahurei, na i taea e te tiki ki te mohio ki a ia pai i roto i te heke mai. Mea atu, ‘e ahau apii hiahia taea e ahau te tiki ki te mohio ki a koutou aianei, me te ki te whakaatu ki a koutou i te mea he nui te taata i ahau, engari i ahau ki te tiki haere. Ka taea e ahau te tiki i to koutou tau, na, e nehenehe tatou e te tiki i tenei ake, i muri mai.’? Ki te mea ia ki te homai ki a koe i ia tau, whakawhetai ki a ia, me te mea kei a koe oaoa ki te tiki ki te mohio ki a ia. Na ka haere atu te hohoro, rite koe te tino he pukumahi. Ki te ia e kore e hoatu a reira ki a koutou, tika te kata ai, i mea, e kore e taea te faahapa i ahau, no te ngana ana.’ I muri i te katoa, koe tika tango i te tūpono. Kia whakakake o koe mo te hanga i te kaha. Ahakoa te rua-miniti drill taea e kia whai hua, i te tekau ma rua drill e kore e te manako tetahi kotiro kahore he mea pehea te patipati te whakaaro koe e koe. Kia tangohia e koe te wa nui ki te whakamōhio ki a koe, ki te kotiro, ki te ui i tona ingoa, me te ki te tuku i tana hohoro koutou kite e koe i te matao, taata ia i te hiahia ki te kite i ano. Ki te ite koe he takamuri i roto i te whakahaere, ranei te kotiro e pupuri ana i te titiro a tawhio noa te piha, arowhai tona waea, ranei e ngana ana ki te hanga kanohi whakapā ki a ia hoa kia ratou te whakaora ia ia i roto i a koe, na, kua ngaro to koutou tupono noa. Aroha mai, e hoa. He pai waimarie i muri mai i te wā. Ki te rua o te aro koe ki te kitea te tahi mea ki te mea, ka kore e ui mo ia tau. He aha e hiahia ana ia ki te hoatu ki a koe, kia taea e koe te noho i roto i te puku tuke i te tahi atu i tetahi atu wa? Ki te mea ia ta poroporoaki ki a koutou, me te tīmata te haere atu, kaua e te ui mo ia tau. Ki te hiahia koe ki te ui ki a ia e whakaroa. Ko te kore-brainer. Ki te kore koe e i roto i te waenganui o te kura, whai koe ki te hoatu i runga i tou nui, tamaiti, tarau, me te ui ia outou iho. Ki te to koutou hoa ui mo koutou, ka titiro koe whakamā, pāhekeheke, me te kore e rite ki te mau te tangata. Ki te kotiro, ki te whakaaro koe e kore e ngākau nui ki te ui mo tona waea te tau, kia pehea te taea e ia titau koe ki te faahoruhoru ia, no te e koe te whakairi i roto i. Kia whakaaro ētahi iwi te reira i te whakaaro pai mo ki a koe te haere ake ki te kotiro: a ki te mea e, ‘Aue, te wana, e kore e taea kitea toku waea, kaua e whakaaro ki te hoatu e ahau ki reira he karanga i tou waea.’ Na, ko te kotiro e tū hoatu ki a koutou ia ia ahurei, me te ka koe ‘ite’ e te tou waea i roto i to koutou pute. Ia ka kite te mea kei e koe ki runga ki, a ka whakaaro koutou tino kopa, te tiki i te tahi tinihanga piro hoki tenei tetahi, engari e te reira atu pea e, te kotiro, ka whakaaro koutou rawa wehi ki te ui ki a ia ahurei i te ara noa. He huarahi pai ki te haere e pā ana ki te reira. Tikanga kotahi, e te tikanga te mahi i te mea hoatu tou tau tuatahi. Ki te whakamahi koe i he kupu pēnei, ‘kua hokona e ahau ki te haere i roto i te meneti. Tenei te toku ahurei ki te hiahia koe ki te karanga kuputuhi ranei ahau, a ka tatari mo te ia ki te hoatu ki a koe i ana mea. Ki te mea ia ki te taata, te reira pea e ona hoa ranei, husband. E kore te mea i nga wa katoa te take, engari kia tupato. Whakamahi i tou mahunga, mataara me pehea e taunekeneke, me te whakatau he aha ki te mahi. Kaua e wehi ki te tika tīmata i te aparauraa ki te kotiro, ki te ia e ia, ki ētahi atu iwi, ara he hoa tane. Ki te haere koe ki runga ki a ia, me te mea te tahi mea, me te tīmata ki te tiki i roto i te kōrero, ka hohoro te whakauru i a koe. Kaua e pawera ki te kahore te tō mahere e kore e mahi. I te atu te wa tamata koe te tono mo te kotiro o te tau, te pea atu e koe ka taea ki te tiki i te whakautu pai. Koa e kore e wareware ki te titiro pai, me te kakahu o koutou kakahu pai ki te whakamahere koe i tono hoki ia i te tau waea, kihai ia i pai ki te hiahia ki te hoatu i te taata ia tau, ki te koe i te haunga o te kino ranei titiro tāpiapia. A, no te e koe te korero ki te kotiro rite koe, e kore e te ahotea e pā ana ki te aha kia kōrero koe e pā ana ki. Te kōrero ki a ia i te ara ano e koe te kōrero ki te hoa. Korero ki a ia e pā ana ki koe, me te ui ia e pā ana ki ia. A ani ia i roto i, me te kore e te e wehi o te pato’iraa. Ki te mahi ia te mea e kore, ko ia e kore e utu koutou wa. Whakamātauria ki te neke i runga i, no te tupu tenei

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